WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of it's associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have My permission to use any of My profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have, or do, it will be considered a serious violation of My privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to stop unauthorized use/copying of your images and/or profile information. **** **** **** **** **** Now that the 'legal' business is out of the way, let's get to the rea that were're all here shall We: Welcome to My profile, and thank you for dropping by... I am a 'well endowed' 55yo SWM... College educated, Straight, better than average build, well travelled, financially & emotionally secure, and D&D free. I have been 'active' in the Lifestyle for about 25 years. I like to travel for business and for pleasure. In the past, I have travelled extensively overseas and would like to see it all again with someone special. I enjoy riding My 2003 HD Ultra, and I also enjoy My time on the water sailing or powerboating. I am frequently in the Birmingham, San Diego, Las Vegas, and Miami areas for those of you who do not live near Orange Beach, AL. There is a GREAT deal more to Me than I have the space to write here. I have many interests outside of the D/s world and I can appear to be very vanilla at appropriate times. [Here's a plus... Unlike some people, I actually know what the word "discretion" means.] **** **** **** **** **** If you are a 'sub' and are truly seeking a 'Dom' or 'Master' read on: Perhaps I can help you on your journey through pleasurable pain. Give Me your body and I can touch your soul. Let Me have access to your mind and I'll touch your spirit! Piqued your interest? Read further curious 'sub', and prepare to meet a 'practitioner' of the Arts. From this lifestyle, and My own experiences, I have learned many less that guide Me. Honesty and communication are primary in My character. Without them, such things as honor, respect, humility, truth, trust, and real 'love' will fall by the wayside. I am a Gentleman and live My life accordingly, to the best of My ability. I treat others as I wish to be treated. I understand My own human nature so well that it is easy to discern other peoples' true motives/desires. Although I am very secure financially, I don't consider material wealth to be 'all important'. To Me, the connection I can make with someone's soul and heart is of paramount importance. What I enjoy most about the Lifestyle is control within the Power Exchange. I don't mind a few screams of ecstacy from time to time either! *smile* I am ALWAYS respectful of limits and mindful of safe, sane, and consensual play. However, I derive great pleasure from thoroughly testing one's limits... Do you know *yours* yet? **** **** **** **** **** Honesty, Respect, Truthfulness to your self, and Total Dedication to Me are required. Once given, I promise this: I will take you to your very core and I will release you from the trappings of our society. I know the pleasures of giving pain, and understand that there is a much deeper dynamic at work then the simple exchange of pleasure/pain. I offer you completion, and an understanding of all those deep dark things that most would prefer to keep hidden. And even fewer are privileged to have fully enjoyed. I think that a little 'kink-a-day' keeps things interesting, and a sub ‘on-her-toes’. But that may be just My opinion. (*smile*) **** **** **** **** **** Nothing is more Erotic to Me than an attractive woman who, having recognized her innermost submissive needs, knows that she is ready to be completely dominated/owned... And, is prepared to give complete control to her Master... To fulfill His every desire. I am ISO an experienced, or novice, sub that *knows* she needs discipline and structure in her life (coupled with a strong desire to please her Master)... for mutually satisfying pleasure. In other words: A single, or unattached, female with a nature to please. Preferably a Caucasian, Asian, or Latino between the ages of 28 and 52. I like what people consider 'the girl-next-door' types, but if you are very attractive I won't be disappointed. You'll need to have good hygiene of course, and a clean bill-of-health (ie. free of STD's). Anyone with bi-polar problems is not desired. I am somewhat drawn to petite woman. [ It's a fetish, what can I say?... I'm honest! ] However, I enjoy feasting My eyes upon beautiful breasts - regardless of their size... So don't let My 'fetish' deter you if yours are (how shall We say this) 'well endowed'. If you consider yourself to be a little overweight for your height that is ok. If our "friendship" turns into more, be aware - I also enjoy seeing My submissive interact, on occasion, with other attractive males at 'scene parties'. If you are Bi-sexual, that's a plus in My book. **** **** **** **** **** \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* Real-time only. * No 'cyber sex'. {Everyone knows that it's load of crap anyway. Besides, where's the fun in that? I want to be touching My sub.} \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* I want a real time relationship, not a "cyber" one. "Real time" meaning that whenever I "interact" or "scene" with My sub, I am actually with the per...in the same room. Really doing whatever things We have chosen to do... NOT playing at it over the Internet! If, after reading all of my profile, I sound like what you are seeking to fulfill your life as a 'sub', then write me – **** **** **** **** **** WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of it's associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have My permission to use any of My profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have, or do, it will be considered a serious violation of My privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to stop unauthorized use/copying of your images and/or profile information.

My Ideal Person In the D/s lifestyle I am a 'Dom', so you would be a 'sub'.
In the sexual world I am a 'Top', so you would be a 'bottom'.
You and/or your partner (if you're a couple) are fit, athletic, or at least height/weight proportional.
You are also Caucasion, a non-smoker (or very light smoker) and a social drinker.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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