I am deeply shallow and outwardly self-centered, talented, successful, with a lean body buffed at the gym. I been told that I have a perfect ass and I try not to act like one. Recently divorced, I enjoy the freedom to do as I please. Another serious relationship would be way premature just yet so I'm here to find convivial female company for an open-ended friendship. I don't smoke and I enjoy the unrestricted use of both halves of my brain. I'm an enthusiastic and accomplished diner but an amateur cook, successful technocrat but not really good at this bachelor thing yet, father, and favorite uncle, garage musician, feeder of wild finches, runner and weight-lifter, helpful with crossword puzzles, avid water-skier, brown-bagger, New Yorker subscriber, casino blackjack enthusiast, concert-goer and intrepid traveler. I'm looking for stimulating conversation, laughs and mutual physical gratification. I am young enough to treat a woman well and old enough to appreciate her finest qualities. I enjoy the look, feel, taste, and scent of a woman and I love to cook something up in both the kitchen and the bedroom. Sex isn't the only thing that I find appealing, but it's a fine place to start.

My Ideal Person You are an attractive and fascinating woman who richly deserves a playful and passionate paramour. Someone to laugh and cuddle and snuggle with, someone to embrace and caress, someone to please with my hands and my kisses and with my imagination. You are slender, educated and expressive. You know what you want and you make requests, not demands. You are comfortable in your own skin - you value me but you don't need me. If you have a pretty smile and flash it often that counts for a lot with me - and if you don't have a smile on your face then I intend to put one there! I don't mind spoiling you if you aren't spoiled already. No replies from single girls under 30 please; I am not Mr. Right. No come-ons to other web sites.