Standard members can now contact as they wish. Well, after what seems like forever, my divorce becomes final this week. I'm not sure what I'm looking for in a relationship, yet. Friendship is a must. I don't know whether or not I'm ready for another LTR...if the right lady comes along, who knows. I love summer afternoon showers, autumn leaves, and the touch of a warm lady. I am not pushy and can be very selective. For me, pleasure is not derived from just sex but also in allurement and anticipation. The "tingly" feeling when you first meet and hold hands or embrace is pure excitement. I love to be with a woman that likes being massaged and carrassed. I love to explore the curve of her back and the softness on an inner thigh. I love to travel (especially in the mountains), baseball, music (all kinds except whiney country and ... isn't music it's just noise...really bad noise), and to explore new ideas. I have an insatiable curiousity and like to be involved in new projects or outlets.

My Ideal Person My idea person is not pushy nor demanding. We both simply go with the moment and see where it leads us. She likes to take her time and savor the feeling. Age is a state of mind and as such is non-important, though I do prefer to be with a lady somewhat my own age. I am also not hung up on a particular body shape. We are all made different and all have special qualities. She should not be into pain or drugs.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Chuck Mangione

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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